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Heaven's Gift vs Caeserean Date Selection
Heaven’s gift, the year 2010 my daughter in law is pregnant. Expecting a delivery in the solar month of middle February on the year 2011. During that time I was very unhappy, friends and students kept persuading me to choose a date for caesarean delivery. But I do not like the idea as I believe family member’s “Bazi” are interrelated on its effect to each other, like father affecting his son and wife. In “Zi Wei Dou Shu” the family member palaces of son or grand children chart can dictate their parent’s success, failure or growth of its road path. I do not wish to alter this predestined arrangement as I believe that heaven’s destiny is all predetermined. So I decided to let this be a test to our family.
Unexpectedly in the middle of the Lunar 12th month 2010 the baby had came out earlier of birth and thankfully the birth chart is good. Although this early birth has messed our family planning and caused a lot of problems in all the arrangements and bookings but nevertheless I was still very happy of the fact.
Being grateful I would like to share my joyful happy events and my thoughts to our fellow readers and students. “Wen Chang Hua Ji” appearing in the path of triangular and four harmony of the chart of the beholder will face many obstacles in its path. Having “Wen Chang Hua Ji in a “Sha Po Lang” structure coupled with bad stars it will bring about a risk taker and he/she does not favor a proper career field. If it falls into the “Ji Yue Tong Liang” structure combination then this person love to take short cuts and easy way out which makes them prone to be an impractical person or to the worst a con men. If it falls into the family palace and it doubles up then it will become too much to handle for the family.
In the path of the destiny world, I always come across people who want to choose a date for caesarean which I never agreed. I always ponder firstly if the parents are meant to have such fortune and secondly I believe in Karma. When a baby’s birth to their death whatever they give, take and pay is all written in the destiny. As character and decision can be a barrier to your destiny and luck then “Where does the character come from?” My opinion is that character is formed because of the DNA of the parent. If being a parent and you do not have a righteous heart you will also bring about the same kind of children. From the religion prospect it beliefs in the parent’s karma effect from the past.
So I strongly believe that forcefully picking an unripe fruit is not sweet ‘thing’. And it is also against the natural path. Many had offered to pay me highly to choose a date which I always hesitate. Another fact is that destiny analysis is not my career as I am not depended on it for living. As I have a strong love for metaphysics so I stayed in this field for so many years. In this world there are numerous unfortunate people that I can use this money to help them and that alone makes me very happy.
By Madam Yap
