When three are walking together, one can be my teacher 三人行必有我師焉

 

道家做人標准 - 領悟道,修德,順其自然,淡名利
Daoism’s Standard – understand the path, cultivate virtue, to let nature takes it course and not seek fame & wealth

 

儒家做人標准-仁,義,礼,智,信. 人生观-积极进取,建功立业.

Confucian’s Standard - righteousness, humanity, etiquette, wisdom, trust, positively progressing and goals oriented

 

佛家做人標准 - 绪恶莫作, 众善奉行, 遵守戒律, 慈爱众生, 旡私奉献.
Buddhism’s Standard – do no evil, do only virtue act, adhere to principles, love all living things and selfless contribution

三人行必有我師焉, 這句名言出自孔子。

小時後常聽老人家說：天大，地大，我大。
在月亮下面看影子，越看自己就越自覺偉大，越了不起。
人天生有這種劣根性，故孔子提倡：三人行必有我師，擇其善者而從之，其不善者而改之。

看起來很平淡，仔細研究起來，人若發現了別人的長處，而自己能虛心從根性裡作出改善，學習且接受是很不容易做到的。

當你嘲笑別人的知識的同時，應該首先應問問自己，你的知識水平是否已到了那個可以取笑他人階段？你的知識是否已超越那個被你嘲笑的人？人家的操作，你是否了解？如果不是，請閉口。

最近，徒弟告訴我，有人在網站批評我的文稿，將我的文稿比作笑話，一彈一唱的，且洋洋得意。徒弟問我該當如何處理？他讀了內容讓我了解，我只是問他幾個問題：
你認為他們進了紫微的門階了嗎？會看大運嗎？會應用嗎？如果還未具備這些條件，不必浪費我的時間。他只是說，与坊间看書学的一般，一知半解。腳还没有放进門，那就别理，由的他们自以为是吧！。

我在網站寫紫微，一方面是當作消遣般塗塗寫寫，另一方面也希望學習紫微斗數的年輕人能朝著正確的路學習下去。至於摸透多少，還必需具備努力，天份與人生歷練，才能將所學的去判斷與推算。所謂命理學，並不是簡單地從命理書就可以參透的玄學。

如果你們覺得我寫的命理是垃圾，請不要上我的網站。也請你們放心，我不是靠五術行業開飯，不會搶你們的飯碗。

但，奉勸你們一句，身為五術行業者，立德，立言，立行是提高自己人格最基本的操守。

五術行業一直不被人看好，所謂九流術士，是人們常常掛在口邊的稱號。身為五術行業者就應該提高自身的素質，別讓人們看扁這種行業與人格。

最後，只要你有真功夫，實在不必去貶低他人，抬高自己。只會紙上談兵，討論与实践根本是兩回事。 

 

The famous verse “san ren xing bi you wo shi yan” we have something to learn from everyone comes from Confucius.

Last time when young always listening to my elderly say that “the sky is big, the land is huge and I am big”. From the reflections of the moon looking at own shadows will make one feels that they are great and amazing. Humans all are borne with such inherent arrogant said Confucius; “san ren xing bi you wo shi” we have something to learn from everyone, we adapt from the best and improve from the worst.

This verse may look simple but looking deeper it is not easy at all. If you find others are better than you, are you modest to correct from roots. To learn and accept this fact is never easy.

When you laugh at other people’s knowledge you should first ask yourself if your knowledge has reached the level that you can make fun of others? Has your knowledge level surpass the person you made fun of? Do you know their system? If not, then please be silent.

Recently my student informed that there are people on the internet criticized my articles and using my article as his game of mockery. Making fun and creating jokes along the article. My student was asking how should they handle it?  I asked, “Do you think they have entered the doorstep of 'Zi Wei"? Can analyse periodical luck? Can they apply it?”  If they have not reached this requirement then I would not like to waste my time with them. They said, “Probably read some books and a smattering of knowledge definitely have not entered the door so is ignorable. Let them continue to believe one is infallible”.

My writing of articles are for past time and recreation. On the other hand, also hoping that the young leaners of "zi wei dou shu" can advance in the correct path to continue learning. As to how much they can penetrate will be based on hard work and life experience to utilize the knowledge to read and determine a chart.

Destiny knowledge is not as simple as by just reading a book or two to grasp this metaphysics knowledge. If they find that my articles are of poor quality, please do not read. And please be assured that I do not depend on this industry to serve my meals so will not rob your rice bowl.

But would like to offer a little advice, “As a professional in this destiny industry, establish your good ethics, speech and conduct so that you can raise your dignity as the fundamentals to your integrity”

Destiny industry has always been termed and viewed negatively and considered as a lowest grade profession. So as a destiny professional you should raise your standard and inner quality. So that others will not look down on this industry’s standard and integrity.

“Lastly, if you really have genuine skills you don’t need to belittle others to look good. Talking on papers and putting into practice are entirely different”. www.ziweidoushubazi.blogspot.com May 2014